Friday, May 21, 2021

Grammy and some Friday Favorites

A week ago today we lost my Grammy. 

It has been one long week- almost feels like a lifetime since then. Monday and Tuesday we were down in PA for her services. I am so thankful that I got to call her my Grammy.  She was the last of my living grandparents.  

May has been hard, first losing her house and then her. 

But I am holding onto all the good- I know I am remarkably blessed to have had her for 41 years of my life.
Thank you Grammy for all you taught us, for the love and acceptance we always felt from you and Pa. You will be missed.

I have been thinking a lot lately about my life, the legacy and testimony I want to leave behind...

 This verse has become my prayer this week...


Some Friday favorites~

I was craving a muffin for breakfast- so I whipped up a Lemon Blueberry Muffin in my Ceramic Egg Cooker... as an added bonus- I also did a LIVE video on location in Grammy's kitchen a while back <3 -> https://fb.watch/5DrLkHYIos/  💖💖💖💖



I heard this song on my way to work this morning- it made me feel so happy!


I'm nearly done with this book. It's so good and thought provoking on how we can step outside our box to love those around us.
"God uses the willing hearts of his imperfect body to turn us back to him
It is one of his signature moves."
p. 183

I started a new bullet journal last week and I love it! I decided to try a loose leaf version so I can add, subtract and revise to my heart's content. I purchased this binder on amazon, as well as both dotted grid and lined filler pages. (A5 size)
I love my cover page...


I used scrapbook paper to make some dividers- I plan to run them through my laminator this weekend to make them a bit sturdier.

I love this essay on Motherhood by Adrienne Martini on AnotherMotherRunner.com - I first started following Adrienne when she was a blogging about training for Pittsburgh the same year I was.  She is also a fellow New Yorker and even though she lives no where near me- it made me feel a sense of camaraderie with this Mother Runner/Writer I have never met. 
MOTHER’S DAY ALL MAY + DRY MARTINI: MOTHERS AND OTHER MOTHERS

Also can I just say how happy I am the weather turned warm and summery this week! I am ecstatic to hang up my pants and break out the skirts and dresses for the remainder of the summer!

What are you loving today?  Have a wonderful weekend! 

Thursday, May 13, 2021

Thankful Thursday

Mother's Day bouquet from my son.

My neighbors lilacs- lilacs always remind me of my grandmothers 💖

Yummy (and healthy) Lemon Blueberry Muffins for breakfast.

One of my happy places, I just love the creek that runs through our town. Just being by the water for a few minutes feel so therapeutic for me. I think its time to get back to my daily runs on the creekwalk.  Last night I was able to sit and chat here with Jess for a while. <3


I'm reading this book in my devotional time.  I'm very much enjoying it. Very thought provoking about stepping out and loving your neighbors and your community.  I also just love the cover. =)
“We might have a zillion reasons to be jaded about our world, but that is not the kind of person I want to be. I want to be someone who clings to the grace and the gift and the good. Rather than spend my days scanning the digital horizon for a dopamine hit of false comfort, I want to keep my ear tuned to the groanings of my place. I want to stand ready, as Christ’s ambassador in my neighborhood, wearing grace, flesh, and skinny jeans. I want to belong, just as I am, and I want to get better at loving people for every good and puzzling thing they are.”
The book also speaks of remembering that every person- is also made in the image of God. This very theme was in my pastor's message two weeks ago. When we are out and about, or at work or where ever we need to remember that person weencounterr is made in the image of God and dearly loved.  How would this change how we interact with people. Pray for people, love people....
 
I give you a new command: Love one another. 
Just as I have loved you, you are also to love one another.
John 13:34 CSB

Monday, May 10, 2021

College Grad!

 

Hard to believe our little girl is now a college graduate! I mean she was in kindergarten like yesterday!

And now...


It was such a blessing to be there for this day. My heart bursting with pride.

I made her eggplant parm for dinner. <3

I was so thankful to have her home for Sunday, she drove back last night as she'll be working in the school where she student taught until the end of the school year.  Part of me is a little bit envious of her- starting fresh with her whole life before her.

Praying for our girl as she begins this new chapter. That God will bless her and lead her to the perfect place for her. 

Thursday, May 6, 2021

Last night we made Rush Hour Fajitas for Cinco de Mayo- we forgot to save the video before we posted the live so hopefully the facebook one will work ok here... (I love the thumbnails Facebook picks out of my videos!)

 

I just love this recipe- it came out so delicious- and it's done in 15 minutes in the microwave!




Some May opportunities~

Host your own party~ the AIR FRYER is BACK as the May HOST Special 

*for qualifying parties*


or join my Freezer Meal Workshop (Zoom or in-person)

Interested? Fill out my google form ->HERE<-

Wednesday, May 5, 2021

I have a living hope...I have a future....

Oh this weekend was hard. So very hard. To know never again will we be able to gather at Grammy's- that this is no longer Grammy's. That it will belong to strangers. No longer the center and hub of our family. I am so thankful for the 40 plus years that I have been able to call this house Grammy and Pa's. I am thankful for the cherished memories we have here. I am thankful my children too had the privilege of knowing and loving and being loved by Grammy and Pa.

Grammy's piano now has a place of honor in our home. Hannah lovingly playing the keys, filling our home with music.

Mom and Dad now have this super amazing table! Many memories around it and many more to come.

My Snuggle Pup is glad I am home again. <3


Yesterday's run wearing my first Half Marathon/Snyder Runner shirt. Reminding me I can do hard things.  Of good memories with the Snyder Clan.  That everything will be OK.

This morning I watched the Church Service I missed on Sunday.  I am so thankful for this Church Family.  That ultimately my hope is not in houses and things but Jesus. 💖

Tuesday, May 4, 2021

April Books

 1- Unleashing Mr Darcy by Teri Wilson  (print)    4/3

A modern retelling of Pride and Prejudice, this story takes place at least in part on the dog show circuit in England.  The story set up felt pretty far fetched. Elizabeth is suspended from her teaching job at a private school on Manhattan. She decides to take a job with a couple she just met at a NYC dog show- as a dog nanny, and traipses of to England to live with a virtual stranger for a month.  She then of course becomes entangled with Donovan Darcy, a wealthy dog show judge.

It was OK- didn't love it, didn't hate it. I had hoped to love it more being that it was a Jane Austen retelling and also had dogs in it but... I hear its been made into a Hallmark movie somewhere along the line so I may have to look into that ;-) 

Update: Watched the movie- pretty mediocre; typical hallmark movie

2- The Friend Zone by Abby Jimenez (kindle)     4/9

 I picked this up because I heard it on a the Currently Reading podcast- featuring Romance Reads.  I decided to read it because it is the first book to The Happy Ever After Playlist which is on my to-read list from last year's MMD Summer Reading Guide.

I really enjoyed it. Then I read some reviews and I started 2nd guessing myself. It actually made me question myself and the type of reader I am.  But anyway...

This story features Kristen and Josh- who meet because their best friends are getting married and they are the maid of  honor and best man respectively.   

There is a lot of gratuitous use of the F-word in this book. Which I found annoying. A lot of the angst in this book was Kristen's refusal to openly communicate with Josh- also annoying. Overall the book was pretty funny- despite dealing with issues like infertility and grief.  

3- Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come by Jessica Pan (kindle)    4/15

So much of this book resonated with me. Jessica finds herself quite dissatisfied with her life and lonely. She decides to spend a year saying yes to doing extroverted things- like talking to strangers, stand up comedy, hosting a dinner party... I really enjoyed this book, her wit and her journey.

The famous Shakespeare quote is “To thine own self be true.” Yes. But I didn’t want to be tethered to my insecurities and anxieties for eternity. I didn’t want to stay stunted. We’re humans—we have the capacity for growth and change.

The time had come to break free of my increasingly uncomfortable comfort zone. I knew that I wasn’t depressed because of being an introvert. I was an introvert who happened to be depressed. I hated who I had become. I wanted to start over.

The reality of it was this: I felt that my life was passing me by.

Other shy introverts step up and conquer this fear every day. Why not me this time?

4- Such a Fun Age  by Kiley Reid  (kindle)    4/21

This book was not what I expected at all. I heard about it on WSIRN podcast, plus it seemed to be all over the place and hyped up last year.  It deals with a lot racial and class/privilege issues.

Emira is a young black babysitter for a wealthy white family.  In the opening chapter Alix (the mother) calls Emira to come take the little girl out of the house.  They were dealing with a crisis.  Emira ends up being confronted by security at the store where they go and accused of kidnapping. She ends up calling the Dad who comes and settles everything. The more or less sweep it under the rug and the story goes from there with this looming in the background the whole time. 

It was a pretty fast read for me and I enjoyed the story.  More or less. I did feel it was a bit dramatic.

“Alex was alone, and the one thing she still had was the freedom to follow the narrative that suited her best.”  -this bothered me- she found out the truth but still clung to the lie as her "truth"; it spoiled Alix for me. 

5- Wild by Cheryl Strayed  (kindle)    4/27

I read this book (in part) because I saw it on Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life. 

It is also a movie which I have requested from my library.

I rather liked the book, I enjoyed the story despite not caring much for Cheryl's character. But if I lost my mother at 22 who knows where my life would have lead.  But I'd like to think I was (even at 22) a bit more grounded than she was. I found it interesting and telling that Strayed; in fact was not even her name- it's the last name she chose for herself when divorcing her husband - whom she completely betrayed and married "too young" (insert eye roll) and idealistic. So maybe appropriate.  

That being said- I did enjoy reading about her journey on the Trail.

Fear, to a great extent, is born of a story we tell ourselves, and so I chose to tell myself a different story from the one women are told.  I decided I was safe. I was strong. I was brave. Nothing could vanquish me.

They were books I’d read and loved, their covers like familiar faces to me, the mere sight of them making me feel as if I was somewhere like home.

Miles weren’t things that blazed dully past. They were long, intimate straggles of weeds and clumps of dirt, blades of grass and flowers that bent in the wind, trees that lumbered and screeched. They were the sound of my breath and my feet hitting the trail one step at a time and the click of my ski pole. The PCT had taught me what a mile was. I was humble before each and every one.

6-  The End of October by Lawrence Wright  (print) 4/29

I was not crazy about this book and definitely would not call it "fast paced" or a "thriller" as it was told to be. I thought it dragged a bit and nearly gave up a few times but felt compelled to finish it for some reason.  Without giving spoilers- I will say I did not like the ending and felt it jumped there without giving some much needed info.  This story takes place during a pandemic- it came out last year but was written obviously in a  pre-covid world.  The pandemic in the book (I feel) was much worse and much deadlier than COVID 19.

The main character Henry, is this big wig for the CDC, he is overseas for a "quick" conference or something when the disease first comes to notice. He ends up being trapped in the middle east in the midst of this pandemic, both because of shut downs and his "importance" in fighting the pandemic and finding a cure/vaccine.


This month: 6

Total read in 2021:  30

Kindle/Ebook: 4    Print: 2    Audio: 0

Library: 6   Owned: 0 

Favorite this month- Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come