Saturday, October 31, 2020

October Books part 1

I ended up reading 10 books in October- it felt a little long so I am splitting it up into two posts.  Here is the first installment.

 1- Martha Washington by Patricia Brady 

I really enjoyed learning more about Martha Washington. She was a devoted wife and mother. A woman of prayer and faith. Well read. She outlived all 4 of her children, a heartache I can not even imagine.  George and Martha later raised two grandchildren as their own, although they never had any children of their own. (All her children being from her first marriage).

During the War she joined her husband every winter at Valley Forge.  She also supported him fully through his reluctant presidencies- for the good of our young nation.  They had both hoped to retire peacefully to Mount Vernon after America won her independence.

"It was a quiet love story, but a lasting one, not one of those tempestuous romances that blaze up suddenly and just as quickly turn to ashes.  Both Martha and George Washington had been in love with others, but once they married in their late twenties, their relationship became a joyful duet that lasted more than four decades." 

"For the rest of her life she was a reader, enjoying novels and poetry and pursuing daily the Anglican Book of Common Prayer and the Bible, especially the New Testament. " (p. 48)

"Patsy became a devout member of the Church of England; daily prayers were one of her lifelong emotional supports."

"Martha and George soon settled into a pleasant routine.  Both of them got up before dawn for a light breakfast.  He then set off on an inspection ride around the estate or perhaps a foxhunt with the neighbors while she read the Bible and prayed before beginning the day's housekeeping chores and sewing." (p. 138)

"General Washington has also just decided to send for his wife, a modest and respectful person, who loves her husband madly."

"In an almost certainly apocryphal (but too good to leave out) story, Martha called the camp's prowling tomcat "Hamilton"."

"Martha has a naturally calm and optimistic outlook on life, but she also worked at maintaining that attitude. As she later wrote, 'I am still determined to be cheerful and to be happy in whatever situation I may be, for I have learnt from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances; we carry the seeds of one, or the other about with us, in our minds, wherever we go.' " (p. 201)

"It was Martha's lifelong habit to spend an hour in the morning over her devotions, praying and reading the New Testament and the Anglican Book of Common Prayer (1662). In late 1789, as the old Church of England was reorganized into the Episcopal Church, the prayer book was revised and published a new American version.  Martha bought a copy for herself as well as others she sent home to the women of the family in September." (p. 366)

2- Party of Two(The Wedding Date #5) by Jasmine Guillory

This was a fun romance read, I didn't realize it was part of a series.  But also it was fine as a stand alone read. I may go back and read the others at some point.

3- A Woman Is No Man by Etaf Rum

This book was riveting and heartbreaking. I could not stop listening. 

The story of three generations of Arab women, Fareeda (mother), Isra (daughter-in-law), and Deya (granddaughter/daughter).  My heart especially ached for Isra and Adam- their lives could have been so much different if not for the expectations and traditions- I kept hoping their story would turn out differently. 

"You have the power to make your life whatever you want it to be, and in order to do that, you have to find the courage to stand up for yourself, even if you’re standing alone.”  

"The books kept Isra company. All it took to soothe her worries was to slip inside their pages. In an instant, her world would cease to exist, and another would rush to life. She felt herself come alive, felt something inside her crack open."

“The problem with stereotypes is not that they are untrue, but that they are incomplete. They make one story become the only story.”

4- The Last Train to Key West by Chanel Cleeton

I did not expect to like this book.  I don't know why. I didn't even particularly want to read it but for some reason picked it up.  Let me just say I loved it- ever. single. bit. The story is narrated from three points of view, three young women.  How their stores intersect and intertwine is interesting. It takes place in the 30s as a massive hurricane hits Key West.

"Then again, it hardly seems worth fretting over. Life happens whether you’re worrying about it or not, and it seems presumptuous to think we have much of a say in how things play out."

"I’m filled with an emotion I haven’t felt in such a long time that I almost don’t recognize it, the taste of it sweet and tangy in my mouth— Hope."

5- Long Bright River by Liz Moore

This book has been showing up in my digital holds since summer and I kept pushing it off- as each time it came in I was engaged in reading something else. This month I finally picked up it. I don't remember why I put it on hold or how I heard about it. I knew absolutely nothing going into it and at first I did not like it at all.  That said the story eventually dragged me in and I could not do anything else until I finished it. It is sad and gripping. The story of two sister, Mickey, a cop and Kacey, who is a drug addict and missing. It goes back and forth between "then" and "now". 

I was dreading a sad broken ending but could not keep hoping for a happy one... 

It's definitely a book and a story that will stick with me.

“I wouldn’t listen. I wanted everything to stay as it was. I was more afraid of the truth than the lie. The truth would change the circumstances of my life. The lie was static. The lie was peaceful. I was happy with the lie.”
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Monday, October 26, 2020

Fall Colors, Dogs, Birthdays and such....

 This weekend was beautiful! Especially because I had a three day one! I have some extra vacation days to use before the end of the year and Friday was one of them! It was an absolutely GORGEOUS day! I started off by walking the dogs and then letting Bruno accompany me on my run....


I stopped to take the above picture and answer my sister's text and looked down to see Bruno rolling in the grass 😂


Made a super yummy Tuna Melt in the Air Fryer! 

Chance thought it looked pretty yummy too! :P

In the afternoon I took Chance to the vet to get his shots updated. Which turned out to be more expensive than I was expecting as he had an ear infection... but seems much better now.  So thankful for that and trying not to think about the money :P Just a couple more days to payday! 

Saturday we celebrated October Birthdays! 









And a very Belated Wedding/Anniversary gift.  
This quilt was made with squares signed by guests at Laura and Rich's wedding.
(By Mom, mostly, Hannah and I helped here and there a bit).

My favorite. 💖

Here's a pretty good representation of how my Sunday School Class went on Sunday :P




Sunday afternoon we had Ryan's Senior Pictures taken at Green Lakes.  I can not wait to see how they turn out.  It was a perfect fall day for it!

I can not believe we are in the final week of October. I am really excited for November and Thanksgiving!  The Delight in the Lord Bible Study begins on Monday.  Just thinking about it makes me feel cozy and thankful. I have my journal and will be looking for a new Fall candle this weekend- and maybe some good pens.... 

My love language =P I actually told my husband on our anniversary breakfast day "I love you even more than coffee."  I'm not sure he was that impressed by the statement. Haha...

I spotted Mikayla in a Houghton post last week on IG.  The first time in 4 years.

Happy Monday everyone! Hope its the start of a great week!

Wednesday, October 21, 2020

Be careful what you grow...

 

I was having a bit of a day. Maybe it's the weather, maybe its not running yet this week, maybe it's just life...

Trying to fill my mind up with good things. I am thankful for a friend who answers with God's Truth...

 ...and I just kept having to remind myself that His love for us will get us through. 
“God is our refuge and our strength, an ever-present help in distress” and “Let us not grow tired of doing good, for in due time we shall reap our harvest, if we do not give up” that He promises that this will all be worth it in the end. He sees us. He sees you and your pain and when you are feeling weary. And he will strengthen us again and again and again. Just as He always has and just as he promises.
“Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is God from of old, creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary, and his knowledge is beyond scrutiny. He gives POWER to the faint, ABUNDANT STRENGTH to the weak. Though young men faint and grow weary, and youths stagger and fall, They that hope in the LORD will renew their strength, they will soar on eagles’ wings; They will run and not grow weary, walk and not grow faint.”

A few things I have seen this morning on Facebook and Instagram this morning...





Tuesday, October 20, 2020

Fall beauty, faithful Pup + Ryan's 18!

This weekend I could help but revel in the fall beauty as I was running and also driving around.


Saturday morning was pretty chilly- actual frost and 34 degrees as we headed out on our walk and then run.  But the sun melted it pretty quickly once it was fully up.
Chance is such a lover. 

 Sunday we celebrated this kid turning 18!  So crazy- 



It took me a long time and 5 matches to get all 18 candles lit! :P
He was really excited about the LED light strip and really pleased with the result after he put it up in his room.  

Last night- his actual birthday- I cooked him his requested Birthday Dinner.
He has grown into such a handsome, caring, funny young man and my mama's heart explodes with pride. 💖

This year- One Pan Turkey Hash

Thursday, October 15, 2020

October Daybook... it's been a while

For Today {Thursday, October 15, 2020}


Looking out my window looks like sunshine! =) 

I am thinking about home churches... our church is encouraging everyone to join a home church- that is a small group for the purpose of discussing the sermon, growing in your faith and fellowship.  
And in fact the portion of The Faith of Mike Pence book I was listening to this morning on my way to work talked about accountability groups and discipleship in the church he and his family were attending.  It seemed like a confirmation of my prayers from this morning in my devotional time. 

I am thankful for the way God speaks to my heart, for my Bible and the amazing privilege and power of Prayer.

One of my favorite things is Reading- picked up another giant library stack on Tuesday.  I gave the librarian my card and she walked over to the shelf- she says "I knew it!" as she pulled out my stack :P I'm glad I had the foresight to bring my bag! 

I am reading 










Also listening to this book- I'm finding it very interesting...
The Faith of Mike Pence by Leslie Montgomery


I am hoping to actually get through my library stack! :~P haha

I am learning to just do it... I overthink everything and then end up doing nothing.  Its a work in progress.... as am I.  And that's OK.

In my kitchen
Yesterday I made Quick Cooker Chicken Soup and it was so good! I think the best I have ever made- I don't know if I'll ever be able to duplicate it.  
I'm so in the mood for soups and stews, breads and muffins.  I love cozy fall cooking.

In my garden
My mums are blooming. I love them and they make me feel happy.

Board room
Pinned: remember
Our country needs such pray right now. 
Our leaders, even those (maybe, especially those) we do not agree with.
Our communities.

Post Script
I just love this Bible Study every year- Making your Home a Haven.  This year I ordered the book/journal from Amazon.  The study begins Nov 2 and I am really excited for it. 
You do not have to order the book to take part in the study- you can follow along online. =)  Think about joining me. =)

Shared Quote  I read this just this morning before heading out the door.

When we know we need to move forward, we must do it with our whole selves- with our actions and our minds.  As long as we're contemplating the issue, we're dwelling on the negative.  Nobody's got time- or headspace-- for that.
Don't wallow, don't wobble, move on.

-- Anne Bogel, Don't Overthink It  p 91                               

A moment from my day
I finally cleaned off my dresser and my night stand. It made me feel so good!

a before- this was actually a few weeks ago... 
it took quite a lot of motivation to actually get it done!

... and just because... Dogs.

Linked up today with Peggy at The Simple Woman's Daybook